“I am a traditionalist in my priorities, which are my family, friends, success in my career then everything else,” Topher says.
‘I like a woman who forces me to bring my A-game, intellectually.’
As an actor, Topher, 25, is all about experiencing new situations, be it living abroad in Spain, backpacking in Western Europe, skiing in Vermont or meeting new people in NYC. His ideal girl would share his sense of get-up-and-go spontaneity, as well as his ability to keep a calm stomach: “I’ve been to all 50 states and have seen 90 percent of the United States’ national parks,” he says. “Let me tell you, that’s a lot of time to spend in a car.”
He may be aspiring for Hollywood glamour, but he’s not looking for diva arm-candy. “Confidence is sexy, but so is humility,” he says. “The ability to laugh at yourself means you don’t take yourself too seriously.”
Tiffany, 25 private equity associate
Your idea of fun? Being with funny and energetic people, whether it’s going to the movies or staying in.
People’s first impressions of you? Energetic, funny, cute, good personality.
What’s attractive? He’s got to be funny and keep me laughing. Being a romantic also defines sexy. Nice eyes don’t hurt, either.
What do people find surprising about you? How stubborn I can be about things that I believe in.
What would your ex say? That I care a lot – sometimes too much – and that I hate admitting when I’m wrong. But really, who doesn’t?
Fill in: Candlelight is sexy, but candle wax is just sadistic.
Shay, 23 bartender
Describe yourself: Funny, an old romantic, very shy at first but outgoing when I open up.
Your type of guy? Pretty eyes, sense of humor, loves to cook, is family-oriented and can make me smile. Also, someone who can go shot-for-shot at the bar, but also stay in and cuddle.
Your idea of fun? Staying home watching a movie; going for a rowboat ride; and going to the bar for a Jack and Coke and some wings.
Ideal date? He’d bring me flowers, and we’d have a picnic by the water or in a park.
What would your ex say? That I’m a flirt.
Deal breakers? Smoking. Guys who talk dirty and don’t even know you.
Kristina, 25 architect
Describe yourself: I’m kind of smart, kind of funny, kind of nice with a hint of sarcasm and a strong will. I’m also hardworking and goal-oriented, though I’d like to think I know when and how to kick back and relax.
Your idea of fun? I like trying new foods, meeting new people and exploring the city. I’m growing to like watching professional sports on TV. Every so often I try my skills on the dartboard. I’m usually hit or miss depending on the night and beer intake.
Best asset? I would do anything for my friends.
Biggest flaw? I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve.
Deal breaker? Smokers need not apply, as well as anyone who’s closed-minded.
Pet peeve? People who try to be overly impressive.