The Issue: Deborah Feldman’s story of growing up in and eventually leaving a Hasidic Satmar community.
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People of all parts of the Judaic spectrum should hear about those in the “cloistered” ultra-Orthodox community who do not act like robots, mindlessly following their so- called elders and wise men (“I Was a Hasidic Jew — But I Broke Free,” Feb. 9).
Too often, people hope to break free from religious bondage but lack the courage to do so. Others should have a chance to read Deborah Feldman’s memoir.
Arnold Mintz
Atlantic Beach
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While everything in this article is true, it’s painted in black and white. People who leave the community often come with baggage yet blame it all on religion.
Some people make it sound as if it’s the worst community and religion is the problem while not mentioning any of the positive aspects they grew up with.
G. Landau
Brooklyn
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I grew up in a liberal, assimilated Jewish family. Chabad Lubavitch came to town when I was 12, and a whole new world opened up for me.
I was ecstatic to be shown the beauty of Judaism that had been liberalized out of me. Growing up, I had no restrictions, made my own choices and had access to everything Feldman didn’t — and I found the limitlessness empty.
It works both ways. People leave the world Feldman ran into.
Eliza Siporin
Jerusalem
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I am disappointed and shocked to read your article about a rebel who brought herself down and tried to bring down others. Everyone may choose to do whatever they want, but they must remember to respect others and respect where they come from.
Publicize our good deeds, like open kitchens for the poor, visiting and taking food to hospitals and Hatzolah ambulences, which save lives from every sect.
Publicize our free mentors and teachers, who help families cope or the fact that many 18- and 19-year-olds in our community don’t know what drugs or drinks mean.
Rabbi Dovid Katz
Boro Park
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I’m sorry Feldman had such a negative relationship with Judaism. There are many other sects of Judaism that are welcoming and provide a vibrant and loving upbringing for children.
I’m lucky to have grown up in a Jewish household and community where I felt my participation was celebrated and appreciated.
Romy Pomerantz
Brooklyn
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I appreciate your telling Feldman’s story. It’s important for the media to highlight the often hidden evils of religious fundamentalism.
I similarly experienced shunning and hate mail from my family and friends who are Jehovah’s Witnesses after I left that religion. To this day, I have no contact with them.
Jesse Dean
Hoboken, NJ
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I’m a nonpracticing Catholic, but I can’t imagine growing up that way. Good for Deborah Feldman for taking control of her life.
Michael Daigle
Chicago