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Despite pain of dad’s murder, Kerr became a champion

Imagine going to sleep. Imagine the lingering thoughts you have before your mind gives out, before the world goes black.

Imagine tomorrow. Imagine a day in which the world is no different, because rarely do you wake to a world much different than the one you left hours earlier.

But phones ring, even when you think life is paused. Conversations come, ensuring that nothing will ever be the same.

For Steve Kerr, the end of normal began on the morning of Jan. 18, 1984.

Kerr’s father, Malcolm, the president of American University in Beirut, was assassinated outside his office on the campus in Lebanon in 1984.AP
Thirty years ago, the man who would become the greatest 3-point shooter in NBA history — who likely will become the next coach of the Knicks — was a no-name freshman at the University of Arizona, asleep in the Babcock dormitory when a call came from a family friend around 3 a.m.

Steve’s father, Dr. Malcolm Kerr — president of American University of Beirut — had been assassinated while walking out of an elevator, shot in the back of the head. Islamic Jihad claimed responsibility for the anti-American act, though later evidence suggested it was committed by a pair of Hezbollah gunmen, following Iranian orders.

None of that was known — or mattered — that morning. An 18-year-old was processing more than the mind is meant to absorb.

“Before my father was killed, my life was impenetrable,” Kerr told the Chicago Tribune nearly 10 years later. “Bad things happened to other people. I thought I was immune from anything like that, and so was my family.

“Something like this opens your eyes. It made me understand the pain that others experience, the effect that death can have. It’s made me realize that millions of people go through these things.”

Kerr’s father had died where he had lived — and was born — having been raised in Lebanon by parents who taught at AUB, though completing much of his higher education in the U.S. In the mid-1950s, he met his wife, Ann, in the building where he later was killed, the two studying abroad at the beautiful campus overlooking the Mediterranean, where both later taught.

Malcolm taught at UCLA for more than two decades, but the Middle East scholar often returned to his beloved Beirut, where Steve was born in 1965. Kerr lived in Tunisia and France and spent his freshman year of high school in Egypt, until the former Bruins ballboy came back to California to attend Palisades High School.

Before my father was killed, my life was impenetrable … Bad things happened to other people. I thought I was immune from anything like that.

 - Steve Kerr, to the Chicago Tribune in 1993
“My parents literally showed me a whole world that existed beyond typical American culture,” Kerr said during a 2004 commencement speech at Arizona. “They gave me an education in understanding people, in being compassionate and respectful. They taught me that though people may speak or dress differently, or have customs or beliefs that were foreign to me, it was important to take the time to not only understand those differences, but to embrace them as well.

“That came in handy years later when Dennis Rodman became my teammate with the Bulls.”

He was his father’s son.

John Waterbury, a former AUB president who had known the Kerrs since the late-1960s — described Malcolm to The Post as “athletic, funny, acerbic and irreverent,” who regardless of distance kept his family “close knit.”

Like many kids, Malcolm’s second-youngest child dreamed of playing big-time college basketball, and like many, it looked like nothing more than a dream.

Gonzaga was the only school to recruit Kerr, but passed on him after seeing one of its guards — John Stockton — torch him in a pickup game, with one coach telling Kerr he wasn’t quick enough to play at that level.

So Kerr planned to walk on at Colorado, until Arizona and Cal State-Fullerton became intrigued after seeing him shoot in a summer league. Fullerton offered first, and Kerr verbally agreed, thinking Arizona had no interest.

Kerr — then with the Spurs — shoots over Jason Kidd during Game 5 of the 2003 NBA Finals.AP
Malcolm asked his son if that was what he really wanted. Upon learning Arizona was Steve’s first choice, Malcolm changed his son’s life with a call, asking first-year head coach Lute Olson if there was an offer. Ignoring the scoffs of his wife, Olson offered the slow, small, unathletic guard the final available scholarship.

“This is part of the genius of [Kerr], he figured out how to take his physical reality and be able to play competitively at the highest level,” former Arizona graduate assistant Randy Brown said. “He was a great study, and he’s so competitive.

“He’s one of those guys that knew what you were gonna say before you said it. He just has an unbelievable sense of the game.”

In the fall of 1983, Kerr began his freshman year and his father, after visiting Steve at the Babcock dorm, went back to Beirut, where he had received his dream job the previous year.

Steve never saw his father again.

“All of us, I think, have a kind of permanent limp of the spirit,” Ann told The Tribune. “The loss is so great, but you eventually go on with your lives.”

After the assassination, Kerr’s mother moved back to California, with his three siblings spread around the world. His Arizona team became another family. And two days after his father’s death, he joined the squad against Arizona State.

“We went to see him in the early morning because we didn’t want him to watch CNN or anything and see how his dad had been assassinated, and he stayed with us for about three nights,” Olson told The Post. “I said to Steve, ‘You just need to take your time, and you can stay away from the game or whatever you want to do.’ And he said, ‘Coach, the only time I can keep from thinking about my dad is when I’m playing basketball.’  ”

It was escape. It was safe.

After breaking down in a pregame moment of silence, Kerr buried a 25-foot jumper on his first attempt, coming off the bench to hit five of seven shots in an upset over their rival.

Kerr celebrates with Trail Blazers teammeate Bonzi Wells after a 2OT win over the Lakers in 2002.Reuters
“It would be something that would keep a young man from doing anything for a while afterwards, but I don’t know, he’s just always had maturity beyond his years,” Olson said.

Two years later, a torn ACL threatened to end Kerr’s career. Instead, he returned to help Arizona reach the 1988 Final Four.

But on the way, a cruel world got colder.

Playing at Arizona State as a fifth-year senior, Kerr endured a series of ignorant and inhumane chants from a group of students before the game began, including:

“PLO! PLO!” “Where’s your dad?” “Your father’s history.” And, “Why don’t you join the Marines and go back to Beirut?”

Kerr began to shake, filled with tears and the memories of his father, he was forced to sit and compose himself. Then, he hit six straight 3-pointers in the first half of a blowout win.

Kerr later called the students “the scum of the Earth,” and Arizona State athletic director Charles Harris sent a letter of apology.

“I just felt like that moment did not reflect the institution, and every once in a while we all make a mistake, and my job I felt was to own it,” Harris said. “He was incredibly gracious. … He’s really an incredible person, someone who survived and rose above unimaginable tragedy. If you look at him over the span of the past 25 years, that embodies who he is. That’s how he carries himself. I think that told us a lot about Steve Kerr.”

Kerr was selected by Phoenix with the 50th pick in the 1988 NBA Draft, beginning a string of five nondescript seasons that stretched to Cleveland and Orlando. After averaging 2.6 points in 1992-93, he signed a non-guaranteed contract with the Bulls for the NBA minimum salary ($150,000), starting the familiar part of the story — as one of the all-time great role players, alongside Michael Jordan, and later Tim Duncan on the Spurs, while winning five NBA titles.

Since retirement, he has displayed his wit for the world as a broadcaster, also spending three years as the general manager of the Suns.

Now a TNT commentator, Steve Kerr chats on the on the sidelines of the Nets-Raptors playoff tilt on April 27.Charles Wenzelberg/NY Post

But in 2008, the inexplicable behavior of man resurfaced, as the Suns’ struggles prompted two emails with death threats against Kerr. One address — dead@beirut.com — listed the sender as his father, the other mentioned the PLO (which had nothing to do with his father’s death).

“How he got through that is amazing,” Brown said. “If guys didn’t know his background and they learned it, I think that’d mean a lot to them. … You get a sense that he can do anything, run a corporation, run the Suns, and certainly coach, with his mind for the game.

“He’s a guy that guys will really play for. He is a very popular person, an unbelievable personality. He was friends with everybody, but the last thing he was concerned with was not hurting people’s feelings. He would light one of his teammates up if there was something they weren’t doing. I always respected that.”

Former Arizona assistant coach Ken Burmeister said, “He can deal with highs and lows. He can deal with people from all backgrounds. He can deal with personalities with [a] calmness that I’ve never seen. He has a confidence that you know good things are going to happen.”

A life filled with challenges is likely to add what would be a monumental task of taking over the most pressure-filled coaching position in the NBA, a team more than four decades removed from its last championship.

Just another seemingly impossible task.

“I think he can handle New York, and being with Phil [Jackson] makes him much more secure in what he’s doing,” Olson said. “I’ve been asked by a lot of people if that’s a good move for him, to go into coaching when he hasn’t had any coaching experience, and I’ve said to everybody I think he would do a great job, having been around the game so long and being the most unbelievable player in terms of understanding the game and his leadership.

“I think they’re going to get it turned around, and I think he’ll get it turned around real quickly.”