I graduated in December and have been offered two jobs. Which may sound great except for the fact that the one I really prefer pays significantly less than the other. I’m not primarily motivated by money, but with incentives it could be nearly twice as much! I don’t dislike the higher paying job, it just isn’t my preference. What do you think?
It doesn’t just sound great to have two job offers — it is great. Or haven’t you been paying attention? As for your dilemma, search deep, little grasshopper. What do you want to do? What matters to you? What will the difference be in your happiness level — and how much is your happiness is worth?
Some people aren’t passionate about their jobs, viewing them as a means to an end — in which case money is a more heavily weighted factor. For others, doing what they love is the most critical factor. Close your eyes — take a quiet moment and a deep breath. Visualize yourself and your life in each job. All things considered, in which one do you see yourself being happiest? Choose that one.
What is the best way to handle getting turned down for a job — particularly when you’re better qualified than the person who was hired?
Sounds like someone needs some sportsmanship training and a hug. I understand your disappointment, but there are many factors that go into hiring decisions, many of which are subjective. So while one person may appear more qualified on paper, they may be the wrong fit for a particular job, company or hiring manager.
The best thing to do is send a note to the key people you met during the process and thank them for their time and consideration. You can express regret that you didn’t get the job, but say that you remain impressed with the company and would like to be kept in mind for future opportunities. And don’t secretly wish for the other person to fail miserably and send them running back to you. It’s bad karma . . . and it doesn’t work anyway!